Sincere, appropriate apology
David Steele
Saturday, January 24, 2004
©2004 San Francisco Chronicle
Steve Kerr did not claim ignorance as an excuse for the offensive term for Chinese Americans he used during a nationally televised NBA game Monday. He offered it as a reason, while making a sincere apology for using it.
"I didn't know it was a derogatory term," he said of the phrase -- "Chinaman" -- he used to describe the Rockets' Yao Ming. "I'm sorry that I offended a lot of people.'' Smart move, because people of Chinese descent, and of Asian descent, understand ignorance as a reason. They don't accept it as an excuse.
They have made that clear since Monday night, when the outraged e-mails and phone calls started crisscrossing the country. Many of them landed at the Organization of Chinese Americans' headquarters in Washington, D.C. Many of them came from the Bay Area, including several addressed to The Chronicle.
The OCA (with 10,000 members in 80 chapters, including the Peninsula and Silicon Valley) listened. So did Kerr, who during his lengthy NBA career had a well-earned reputation as one of the brighter and more perceptive pro athletes.
Kerr made a point of not only issuing apologies in writing and in interviews, but of making one directly to Yao, and admitting that with a Chinese American sister-in-law and a brother-in-law who teaches Chinese history at Cambridge, "of all people, I should know better.''
Kerr didn't do the right thing on the air -- and his timing was particularly egregious, coming on Martin Luther King Day and three days before Chinese New Year -- but he has done the right thing since. Now, he has a chance to help himself and everyone else do the right thing by sports fans from all Asian ethnicities.
"He was actually quite cooperative, and we are continuing the dialogue in order to promote cultural awareness with the Asian American community," OCA executive director Christine Chen said from Washington on Friday.
It's a desperately needed dialogue. It's one that the biggest Asian sports star in American is capable of generating. And, to the chagrin of Asian American fans, it's one that probably will include more insults, inadvertent or not.
"Yao Ming is going to be around a long time," Chen said, "and we're afraid that there will be more ignorant comments and derogatory comments made in the future.''
She's afraid for good reason: Her group has been too busy lately addressing such comments. It was only three months ago that golfer Jan Stephenson went on a tirade in a magazine against the Korean players dominating her sport. A month after that, Mets executive Bill Singer (who later was fired) publicly unloaded a volley of racist insults on Dodgers executive Kim Ng.
Kerr's comment came a year after Shaquille O'Neal spewed gibberish disguised as a Yao impression in a TV interview (a clip that was gleefully repeated by radio talk-show hosts all over the country) and three years after then-Kings guard Jason Williams got into an obscene exchange with Asian fans at a Warriors game in Oakland.
Several viewers angrily saw Kerr's remark as a continuation of an ugly trend, one that crosses gender and racial lines (which they find even more inexcusable) and feeds into the same mind-set that, for example, produced last year's Abercrombie & Fitch T-shirts - that Asians exist in America solely to be made fun of, stereotyped and caricatured.
Posted by P6 at January 24, 2004 11:58 AM
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Comments
Just wait till someone drops the term 'Englishman', or 'Frenchman', or 'Scotsman', or 'Irishman', or...
Posted by Sovereign Eye at January 24, 2004 06:37 PMMy policy is pretty simple: if somebody tells me that they prefer to be called by a particular name and not be called by another name, I do my best to abide by their wishes. That's only polite.
Posted by Al-Muhajabah at January 25, 2004 12:09 AMSo what happens when you meet the guy who wants to be called "the one true God"?
Posted by Phelps at January 26, 2004 01:36 PMI don't think "the one true God" is an ethnicity.
Why did I even answer that?
Posted by P6 at January 27, 2004 04:40 PMYeah, I wonder why I'm bothering either. I consider it bad manners to call people by names that they consider offensive, whether or not I would have said so myself, and good manners to call people by names that they say they prefer. If Phelps wants to make a joke out of common courtesy, so be it.
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