AIDS Fears Grow for Black Women
By LINDA VILLAROSA
HOUSTON — Once a week, the five friends, all members of the Abundant Life Cathedral here, get together to eat sushi, sip wine and talk. But one recent afternoon, the women chose a different activity: They went to see "Not a Day Goes By," a musical about black men on the "down low" who, while not calling themselves gay or bisexual, have sex with other men, often behind the backs of their wives and girlfriends.
To these women, it was a subject of increasing urgency.
"Once I found out how prevalent the down low was in our community, I was very afraid," said one of the women, Tracy Scott, a 37-year-old government relations consultant.
Her friend Misha King, 35, said she needed to get as much information as she could, as quickly as she could.
"I've been on field trips to the gay bars and have seen guys that look like men you would date," Ms. King said. "I treat every man as a bisexual because I don't want to end up as the sister with H.I.V."
In the past, concern about black women and AIDS was mainly focused on those who had used drugs or had had sex with users. But increasingly, women like Ms. Scott and her friends have begun to worry, too.
In government studies of 29 states, a black woman was 23 times more likely to be infected with AIDS than was a white woman, and black women accounted for 71.8 percent of new H.I.V. cases in women from 1999 to 2002. Though new cases of H.I.V. among black women have been stable in the past few years, the number of those who have been infected through heterosexual sex has risen.
In 2001, according to the Kaiser Family Foundation, a nonprofit group focusing on health issues, an estimated 67 percent of black women with AIDS contracted the virus through heterosexual sex, compared with 58 percent four years earlier. Black women accounted for half of all H.I.V. infections acquired through heterosexual sex, in men or women, from 1999 to 2002, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention said.
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We all need to stop focusing on who is spreading HIV. Everyone needs to be more conscious and take responsibility for protecting himself or herself from all sexually transmitted diseases spread from having unprotected sex. The Black community needs to wake up and realize that HIV and AIDS do not discriminate based on sexuality, race, or income. Focusing on the men on the �DL� as the cause of the problem is sadly missing the way to best combat this epidemic.
all people need to get far less uptight about human sexual activity and talk plainly and honestly to each other, and take safe sex seriously and dismiss the "it can't happen to me" mindset.
as for why men and women feel the need to cheat outside their relationships with members of the opposite and/or same sex, maybe talking honestly would help out that situation as well.
i'm also not convinced that civilized human beings are correctly programmed for complete monogamy yet, at a genetic level, but i'd like to be proven wrong.
Posted by DesertJo at April 5, 2004 02:51 PMPrime, you get today's comment promoted to a post.
Posted by P6 at April 5, 2004 04:26 PMTruth is, Jo, I think serial monogamy is the best you get with humans. Even evolution may not help, since there are advantages to juggling the genome.
Posted by P6 at April 5, 2004 04:29 PM