Giving away a secret of my success
I missed most of "Do You Speak American," which is embarrassing since I pointed it out a while back. But they're repeating it tonight, and there's streaming video on their website. Just don't expect great response time between, like, 6 pm and midnight.
If you miss the show entirely, there's one bit of streaming video, Real Player format, that you should check out. They show an artificial face using an artificial voice, a real face using a real voice, and discuss people's reactions when they are confronted with a face/voice combination that doesn't match their expectations...like, for instance, when a Black person has a voice and/or way of expressing themselves that isn't what they expect from a Black person (and I am not the one that made up that example...Robert McNeil did).
It seems people don't trust the unexpected combination.
You may have noticed I drop into Ebonics when da fuk I feel like it. And I execute exacting verbal gymnastics when I feel it the appropriate mode of expression. I've always done that because it really keeps folks off balance...and when someone feels trapped by the negro it relaxes them a bit to realize he is, in the end, a negro after all. Sometimes they interpret it as trust of them on my part (HA!). But it seems I accidentally discovered a general technique and I just thought I'd share it.