I 'd like to see how this one gets enforced

Submitted by Prometheus 6 on April 8, 2005 - 4:41pm.
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Blow to machismo as Spain forces men to do housework
Giles Tremlett in Madrid
Friday April 8, 2005
The Guardian

Spanish men will have to learn to change nappies and don washing-up gloves under the terms of a new law designed to strike a blow at centuries of Latin machismo.

The law, due to be passed this month, is likely to provoke a revolution in family affairs in a country where 40% of men reportedly do no housework at all. It will oblige men to "share domestic responsibilities and the care and attention" of children and elderly family members, according to the draft approved by the Spanish parliament's justice commission.

This will become part of the marriage contract at civil wedding ceremonies later this year.

"The idea of equality within marriage always stumbles over the problem of work in the house and caring for dependent people," said Margarita Uría, of the Basque Nationalist party, who was behind what is an amendment to a new divorce law.

"This will be a good way of reminding people what their duties are. It is something feminists have been wanting for a long time."

Failure to meet the obligations will be taken into consideration by judges when determining the terms of divorces. Men who refuse to do their part may be given less frequent contact with their children.

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Submitted by James R MacLean on April 10, 2005 - 5:32am.

Spain has a civil law system (criminal cases do not require a jury). So I suspect social workers could file complaints. I should ask my brother-in-law, who lives in Seville.

The Guardian tends to be over-reliant on outdated national stereotypes. Likewise, the BBC. Everyone belongs to a national "type." Personally, I've become disillusioned with both of them, and I've always disliked the Guardian pretty intensely. I don't think Spanish culture is especially "macho" anymore.

Submitted by Kevin Wellburn (not verified) on April 13, 2005 - 9:10pm.

If a person makes a contract or an agreement, it is binding. That said, there should be agreements that say "I'm the breadwinner, you handle the housework." On both sides.

My brother doesn't know how to really take care of himself or a house. When he was married, his wife cooking (and making him eat) and other such things made him a better person. He could do with a home-maker type wife.

I'm a little smarter than that. I can cook and clean for myself, and that kind of woman doesn't interest me. I want a woman who goes out and does things on her own and who can enjoy more intellectual things with me. I'll hopefully have a more equal division of labor because I actually kind of like cooking and cleaning.

"Artificial equality" doesn't change minds. If women want true equality, they should just force their catholic husbands to do housework and close their legs. If a man wants those legs opened, there's not much a court can do.