Diversity Fatigue, Labels and Suffering

Submitted by Temple3 on June 16, 2006 - 12:41pm.

Diversity Fatigue article in Time Magazine:

Are Americans Suffering Diversity Fatigue?
People are willing to be tolerant, but only to a certain point. And from California to the Midwest and Florida, signs of exclusionary thinking are popping up all over.

Has it become okay to exclude again?

Perhaps one of the most treasured of American rights is the freedom of association. This is the right to hang out with whomever we want, wherever we want. It's a complicated right, because when we hang out with "people like us," inevitably someone gets kept out. Where and how to draw the line is a question we all seem to be struggling with right now.

Black Jack, Mo., made national headlines late last month when it drew its firm line. An unmarried couple with three children tried to move into the house they had just bought. The house is zoned for single family residences—and the city decided this family does not fit their legal definition of family. The couple pleaded with the city council to change the law. The city said no, and intends to evict. When this news broke, many assumed Black Jack must be one of those white, religious conservative towns in the Bible Belt. But Black Jack turned out to be a suburb of St. Louis, and it’s 70% African American. Their enforcement of the zoning doesn't seem to be motivated by race or religion—just a genuine desire to preserve the pro-family environment.


T3 says:  In reading the article I found it interesting that the labels Conservative and Liberal are tossed around without any consistency whatsoever.  Note that a black man in Nebraska who is cognizant of racism is considered liberal - even though his politics appear traditional and conservative.  "Nor should we assume this urge to withdraw is only a conservative tactic. In the state of Nebraska, the only black member of the state legislature is Ernie Chambers. Ernie is so liberal that a colleague in the legislature said, “Ernie sees racism when he pours his breakfast cereal.” But Ernie Chambers recently pushed through a new bill that carves Omaha’s school district into three—a black district, a white district, and a Hispanic district. He thinks this will protect black schools from being cheated of their fair share of bond proceeds. He also says black families should decide what black children are being taught. They think they’ll be better off taking care their own."

"It's clear people are tired of walking on eggshells, afraid to offend those with different beliefs, ideas, and lifestyles. It's grown exhausting, and they want their lives back. The idea of diversity seems to have worn out its welcome. It is now like a house guest who has stayed too long."

This is the type of phrase that is likely to get some circulation in the coming months.  I suspect an entire cottage industry could open up for consultants.  Diversity Fatigue:  How to Roll Back without Selling Out.  OR Team Unity:  Celebrating Our Common Bonds without Too Much Face Time.

While I don't think tolerance or diversity are meaningful words, I do believe the wanton labeling of conservative and liberal simply demonstrates an ongoing commitment to confuse folks who already know precious little about those labels. 

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Submitted by ptcruiser on June 16, 2006 - 1:17pm.

As usual the mainstream media's take on this issue will result in a great deal of mindless confusion. The right to engage in social discrimination, that is, the right to decide who you wish to invite into your home or call a friend, for example, is an extremely important right. I thought, for example, that black folks and women were headed down a slippery slope when some of them began demanding that whites or men open up their exclusive clubs and social organizations to them. Black people should not have expended one iota of their political capital on this issue.

I come from a long line of black folks who could care less about white people not wanting to invite us to join their clubs. One much older black man of my acquaintance once told me that when he was invited to join an ultra-exclusive country club in the Bay Area that he turned the invitation down because he didn't want his wife and children associating with white folks who were members of that club.

The actions of this St. Louis suburb has nothing to do with social discrimination at all and the issue should not be cast in that form. There is nothing in the law that requires the current residents of that neighborhood or the family seeking to move into the home they purchased to associate with one another. Using zoning laws to prevent this family from occupying their home will eventually cost the residents of that suburb money.

If an area is zoned single-family there is no corresponding requirement that the two adults must be married or even of different genders. Whether or not the neighbors wish to associate with them is a vastly different question than whether or not these two adults and their children have the right to purchase and live in a home of their choosing.

Submitted by Temple3 on June 16, 2006 - 2:03pm.

I couldn't agree more. The thing is - you have a tremendous reservoir of background knowledge to apply to these scenarios. And your information reveals the illogic of the proposition. For millions of others - the only hope is that intuition rescues them from the mindless commentary of time magazine. Thanks for all that phunky context!!
Submitted by Ourstorian on June 16, 2006 - 4:22pm.

"For millions of others - the only hope is that intuition rescues them from the mindless commentary of time magazine."

The "mindless commentary" is just another example of the cognitive dissonance that masquerades for public discourse in this country. America's long love affair with anti-intellectualism, and the concerted efforts of the clergy and politicians to dumb down the nation even further via their attacks on science and "secularism," are turning America into an intellectual wasteland. The best example of this is the public's calm acceptance of the village idiot who currently occupies the oval office.

"Our enemies are innovative and resourceful, and so are we. They never stop thinking about new ways to harm our country and our people, and neither do we." —George W. Bush, Washington, D.C., Aug. 5, 2004 (Watch video clip or listen to audio)

"I'm honored to shake the hand of a brave Iraqi citizen who had his hand cut off by Saddam Hussein." —George W. Bush, Washington, D.C., May 25, 2004

"It's very interesting when you think about it, the slaves who left here to go to America, because of their steadfast and their religion and their belief in freedom, helped change America." —George W. Bush, Dakar, Senegal, July 8, 2003

Submitted by Ourstorian on June 16, 2006 - 4:30pm.

This quote from the inaptly titled Time Ragazine piece, "Diversity Fatigue", further illustrates the boundless ignorance of America's punditry and ill-telligencia and their followers:

"The idea of diversity seems to have worn out its welcome. It is now like a house guest who has stayed too long. We don't want to lose what makes us "us." We're freezing up, right as our melting pot gets to the melting point, and our disparate identities are about to blur away. Can we as a society turn the heat back on without passions becoming so inflamed?"

"Diversity" in contemporary American parlance mostly has come to denote the inclusion in the workplace of people of different genders, races, religions, nationalities, ethnic groups, age groups, and physical abilities (with "inclusion" being the operative word). It also is commonly used to describe the impact of recent immigrants on the nation's ethnic composition. A thoughtful analysis and consideration of the subject, however, should lead one to conclude that diversity is the normative condition of human existence. Rather than seeing it as a program, policy, some kind of feel-good social theory, or a boorish "house guest" who has over-stayed his welcome, we should recognize that every society, no matter how homogenous it may appear on the surface, is composed of people of different ages, sexual orientations, religious beliefs, physical abilities, etc. Every family, group, society and nation is diverse by nature. If we can learn to recognize this fact on the micro level of our own family, then perhaps we can extrapolate this common sense awareness to the larger family of humankind.

Submitted by ptcruiser on June 16, 2006 - 5:26pm.

"It's clear people are tired of walking on eggshells, afraid to offend those with different beliefs, ideas, and lifestyles. It's grown exhausting, and they want their lives back. The idea of diversity seems to have worn out its welcome. It is now like a house guest who has stayed too long."

I am a person who has an inordinate number of opinions about an extremely broad variety of subjects and public policy issues but I am at a loss to understand why people are feeling fatigued or as if they are walkng on eggshells because they are expected to act in a civil and polite manner when dealing with people who are outside of their circle of family or friends. Do I really need, for example, to tell the Filipino family that owns the bagel bakery in town that my wife and I strongly feel that the Filipino family that has the Dunkin' Donut franchise is racist and that we refuse to let our children purchase anything from their store?

The obvious answer is no because our primary relationship with the bagel store owners is transactional. They sell things that we want to buy. They are not part of our circle of intimate friends or acquaintances and they are not responsible for the attitudes and behavior of the Dunkin' Donuts franchise operators.

It seems to me that this so-called fatigue is actually a sign that people are anxious for a certain kind of intimacy or relationship with others that is not appropriate. It might be okay in a certain sense to tell your gay brother that you can't accept the homosexual lifestyle (whatever that means) but is it really okay to say that to the lesbian who drives the school bus that your kids ride on? Why would anyone who presumably learned in kindergarten what good manners meant believe that they have the right to express their personal and intimate opinions and viewpoints to people who are strangers.

I am not really interested, for example, in talking to the white guy who owns the Goodyear tire shop in town about Al Sharpton or Jesse Jackson. He can, of course, express his opinion to me but if I don't like it I won't buy anymore tires or automobile services from him. He and I, however, get along quite well. He and his workers are unfailingly polite and civil to me as I am to them and we talk about our kids and sports. I don't feel as if he is walking on eggshells and I know that I am not.

Wasn't it T.S. Eliot who wrote that "humankind can't bear too much reality." This desire to throw off the alleged bonds of civil society seems to indicate that there are a lot of VERY ANGRY people in America who feel some strange need to express opinions about things that are best kept to oneself. 

 

 

Submitted by Prometheus 6 on June 16, 2006 - 6:46pm.
I am at a loss to understand why people are feeling fatigued or as if they are walkng on eggshells because they are expected to act in a civil and polite manner when dealing with people who are outside of their circle of family or friends.

Me too...who REALLY doesn't understand how to treat people well without hurting themselves?

Fortunately, having recognized it one need no explain it. One need only...compensate.

Submitted by ptcruiser on June 16, 2006 - 6:51pm.
Note to O - those quotes you cited slay me everytime I read one of them.
Submitted by Ourstorian on June 16, 2006 - 7:41pm.
Here's a link to the source for the quotes above, and a shitload of other Bushisms organized chronologically.
Submitted by Temple3 on June 17, 2006 - 6:46pm.

These people are certainly angry - and they're angry in the manner of a child (you know that little blond kid in the supermarket who has lost his/her mind and is getting a "time out" instead of a FOG (fear-of-god) lesson). Diversity fatigue is real. White folks, in this instance, are lamenting their ability to do as they please. It's all very Emile (Rousseau's Emile) and some spankings are in order. Such behavior belies the notion of a civil society or a mature polity. Those who believe themselves to be "suffering" are really no more than brutes looking for space to spew contempt for all things. I am reminded of the line..."What do you think of Western civilization?" "I think it would be a great idea!" I believe that was Ghandi.
Submitted by ptcruiser on June 18, 2006 - 1:19pm.

Diversity fatigue is real. White folks, in this instance, are lamenting their ability to do as they please.

This may be cynical but I suspect that what lies underneath this bubbling cauldron of anger is a desire to, among other things, refer to black people as "niggers" even at the Thanksgiving table and not be rebuked by any of the other diners. The reality is that folks all over the world are refusing to take anymore ass whippings from white folks at least without retribution. 

 

Submitted by Temple3 on June 18, 2006 - 6:12pm.

I don't see that as cynical in the least. It must be difficult for this generation of white folks. Think about what they've inherited and the mental gymnastics required to sustain it. Stewardship contingent on a lie - not the fact of might makes right, but the myth of civilization seeking god and truth and liberty...it's tough to hang on to that. And when folks fight back - physically, intellectually (rhetorically, technologically, etc.) the game is harder to play. So, the first fight is an internal one: send the message to other white folk that "we" are tired of not being "us/ourselves." "We" must stop imposing this PC thing on ourselves...let's tear off the veil and the charade...but they don't understand that the charade is akin to the little white string that can hold an elephant. No charade, no stewardship...they better suck it up.

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